Graduation. The point in our lives that we either can’t wait for, or the point that we dread. Whichever perspective we hold depends a lot on our personal experiences. If you are like me, you are the person who can’t/couldn’t wait to leave high school in the past.
I’m sure we’ve all heard someone say, “high school is the best time of your life.” Maybe this is true for some of us, but not for all of us. And that’s okay. It’s okay to love high school and it’s okay to not. What’s important to remember is to respect each other’s feelings on this matter. There was nothing I couldn’t stand more than someone trying to change my mind whenever I said anything about being excited for graduation.
Most of us have attended a commencement ceremony. We’ve seen the graduates who can’t stop the tears from flowing, the ones who check on stage to see if their diploma is signed, and the ones who are yawning in the front row. Although there are widespread feelings and reactions among these graduates, they share one commonality. They have reached a new beginning.
There seems to be a common misconception around graduation. Some look at this time as one story ending and a different one beginning. Graduation instead signifies the end of one chapter and the beginning of a new chapter. Life is not separated into two different eras, “before graduation” and “after graduation.” Life is one story with several chapters.
It’s okay to be excited to start a new chapter. Think about how you feel when you’re reading a good book. Everything that has happened in the book has led you to this moment. You can’t wait to see what happens next. This can also be applied to our lives. Our years of school that seem to drag on forever lead us to our graduation. We don’t know exactly what lies ahead after our graduation, but we’re excited to find out.
Just because we have left one chapter, does not mean we have to dwell on it. As the cheesy Dr. Seuss quote goes, “don’t cry because it’s over, smile because it happened.” It’s okay to be ready to start your next chapter. The pages are blank. They are yours to fill in.
Living to Serve,
Hope Brecht
Southeast State Vice President
Iowa FFA Association
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